<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750462965654831708</id><updated>2011-12-20T10:24:05.560+11:00</updated><category term='victim mentality'/><category term='stress in the workplace'/><category term='France'/><category term='attitudes'/><category term='protagonist'/><category term='weathering the storm'/><category term='languages'/><category term='comfort zone'/><title type='text'>Useful Stories</title><subtitle type='html'>I collect stories to use in corporate training and coaching. Here are the ones I want to remember. Maybe you can find them useful too!</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Cindy Tonkin</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-4B4ZOz3LajI/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/07nWmBPdSbA/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>3</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750462965654831708.post-911019871859088692</id><published>2009-09-05T16:29:00.004+10:00</published><updated>2009-09-05T16:34:54.645+10:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='attitudes'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='victim mentality'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='protagonist'/><title type='text'>The stories you tell change your mind and your attitude</title><summary type='text'>Interesting post by Andrew Rixon of Babel Fish Group, about the stories told by people who had an accident. Where they had sued someone, their stories were "victim" stories. Where they had not, they were more often "heroes" of their own stories.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/feeds/911019871859088692/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/2009/09/stories-you-tell-change-your-mind-and.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default/911019871859088692'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default/911019871859088692'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/2009/09/stories-you-tell-change-your-mind-and.html' title='The stories you tell change your mind and your attitude'/><author><name>Cindy Tonkin</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-4B4ZOz3LajI/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/07nWmBPdSbA/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_elBMKNg5V30/SqIGcmopbAI/AAAAAAAAB0Y/ExvsRqL5D4I/s72-c/bowls+exeter+mar+07+067.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750462965654831708.post-8926183477370189313</id><published>2009-07-23T19:20:00.005+10:00</published><updated>2009-07-23T19:41:49.779+10:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='France'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='comfort zone'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='languages'/><title type='text'>Out of the comfort zone</title><summary type='text'>I put this story together as my introduction for a speech on story telling I'm giving for a Breast Cancer Network's National Member Group Summit on August 13, 2009.When Cindy Tonkin was 17 she went to France as an exchange student. She didn’t speak much at all for 3 months. She didn’t think her French was good enough, and Corinne, her host student spoke excellent English.   Then came the school </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/feeds/8926183477370189313/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/2009/07/out-of-comfort-zone.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default/8926183477370189313'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default/8926183477370189313'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/2009/07/out-of-comfort-zone.html' title='Out of the comfort zone'/><author><name>Cindy Tonkin</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-4B4ZOz3LajI/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/07nWmBPdSbA/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_elBMKNg5V30/Smgvo46efTI/AAAAAAAABzc/RypKzjJCMFA/s72-c/cindy+and+her+french+friends+1981068.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3750462965654831708.post-3956259270089807990</id><published>2009-07-23T18:55:00.000+10:00</published><updated>2009-07-23T19:00:11.408+10:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='weathering the storm'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='stress in the workplace'/><title type='text'>The surfer story</title><summary type='text'>At lunch today with Glen, he told me the story about one of his bosses who dealt very well with conflict and stress. This boss always overspent his budget, and was constantly in trouble with the internal auditors. He was incidentally a great boss to work for.  He was also a surfer. When a wave dumps a surfer they go down to the bottom of the water and hang onto the seaweed until the big wave has </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/feeds/3956259270089807990/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/2009/07/surfer-story.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default/3956259270089807990'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/3750462965654831708/posts/default/3956259270089807990'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://cindytonkinstories.blogspot.com/2009/07/surfer-story.html' title='The surfer story'/><author><name>Cindy Tonkin</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='32' src='//lh3.googleusercontent.com/-4B4ZOz3LajI/AAAAAAAAAAI/AAAAAAAAAAA/07nWmBPdSbA/s512-c/photo.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_elBMKNg5V30/SmgmgQJ0ljI/AAAAAAAABzE/tVyBXP1LrLg/s72-c/cycle+beach.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
